tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post4452508159010273682..comments2024-03-13T06:07:19.579-07:00Comments on The wiles of a madman: Fractured Fairy Love TalesBiju Mathewshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-53944579969198703882009-03-02T08:33:00.000-08:002009-03-02T08:33:00.000-08:00@Onthewingsofadream: I just hope people can learn ...@Onthewingsofadream: I just hope people can learn to let go and make life less complex. Hope young couples can realize that after all they are together for a purpose and try not to own each other. Thanks for coming by..Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-60848967855471333222009-02-28T11:54:00.000-08:002009-02-28T11:54:00.000-08:00relationships are complex ...it takes lot of passi...relationships are complex ...<BR/>it takes lot of passion to adjust your life for someone .<BR/><BR/>good one Biju ..Preetihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07761022939902063787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-21507787639648473872009-02-26T09:25:00.000-08:002009-02-26T09:25:00.000-08:00Shail: Exactly! How sweet of you to put it here. ...Shail: Exactly! How sweet of you to put it here. Thank youBiju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-68444087488504917452009-02-26T08:19:00.000-08:002009-02-26T08:19:00.000-08:00Your comment to Deeps reminds meof this song:Maa s...Your comment to Deeps reminds meof this song:<BR/><BR/>Maa sunao mujhe woh kahani<BR/>Jisme Raja na ho na ho Rani<BR/><BR/>Jo hamari tumhari katha ho<BR/>Jo sabhi ke hriday ki vyatha ho<BR/>Gandh jis mein bhari ho dhara ki<BR/>Baat jis mein na ho apsara ki<BR/>Ho na pariyan jahan asmani<BR/><BR/>Vo kahani jo hasna sikha de<BR/>Pet ki bhookh ko jo bhula de<BR/>Jis mein sach ki bhari chandni ho<BR/>Jis mein ummeed ki roshni ho<BR/>Jis mein na ho kahani puraniAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-3860648145358526742009-02-26T05:23:00.000-08:002009-02-26T05:23:00.000-08:00@ Deeps: Welcome to my blog. I'm glad you liked it...@ Deeps: Welcome to my blog. I'm glad you liked it. Thanks! I'm not saying that those innocent lovely fairy tales shouldn't be told but tales of living the harsh way should also be told. As young men and women they should not get a shock and just keep remembering those fairy talesBiju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-5904704114115712272009-02-26T05:19:00.000-08:002009-02-26T05:19:00.000-08:00@ Shail: I like what you wrote here, "..Some can r...@ Shail: I like what you wrote here, "..Some can relish their feelings of love without telling the object of love about it. Others simply have to tell. We are all individuals but unfortunately not treated as such..." How true!!<BR/><BR/>Thanks so much!Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-14512729238041440352009-02-26T05:15:00.000-08:002009-02-26T05:15:00.000-08:00@ Rinchen: By the time we learn how to live with h...@ Rinchen: By the time we learn how to live with him or her, step by step, we would have already created enough vaccum and communication gaps to be in the "love" mode. Thanks for coming by..Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-40313996631779992812009-02-26T05:12:00.000-08:002009-02-26T05:12:00.000-08:00@ Chirag: Welcome to my blog! Thank you so much. ...@ Chirag: Welcome to my blog! Thank you so much. Yeah, we all need a guide book in social livingBiju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-84167775390399517162009-02-26T05:09:00.000-08:002009-02-26T05:09:00.000-08:00@ Reema: Thanks so much for visiting! Indyeah doe...@ Reema: Thanks so much for visiting! Indyeah does have some valid points here but as I was telling her, compassion ends where ego begins and it's impossible for normal mortals to avoid frictions. Two different personalities are at work in love which just fades after some timeBiju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-13235738242344674772009-02-26T04:58:00.000-08:002009-02-26T04:58:00.000-08:00@Vijesh: Thanks! You will get your romantic break....@Vijesh: Thanks! You will get your romantic break. Trust me :-)Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-87638600703975940602009-02-26T04:57:00.000-08:002009-02-26T04:57:00.000-08:00@Indyeah: Thanks! "...worthy kind compassionate h...@Indyeah: Thanks! <BR/><BR/>"...worthy kind compassionate human being then he/she will not have to learn much...." - Maybe I'm wrong but compassion ends where ego begins. It's impossible for normal mortals to avoid frictions<BR/><BR/>"...with a balanced and equal gender upbringing this wont happen.." - Gender equality at home has its problems. The new awaiting relationship and new home may not support that and the individual gets torn between two different worlds<BR/><BR/>Yes, we need to have hope, trust and love<BR/><BR/>Thank you for your comments!Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-28161193183015300492009-02-26T04:46:00.000-08:002009-02-26T04:46:00.000-08:00@ Sujeeth: Yeah, everyone wishes a happy fairy tal...@ Sujeeth: Yeah, everyone wishes a happy fairy tale ending but never make it. The tales should not end a happy note but should give us insights of what to expect. Thanks!Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-18833308946679811062009-02-26T04:44:00.000-08:002009-02-26T04:44:00.000-08:00@ brocasarea: Yeah, exactly! Living with people s...@ brocasarea: Yeah, exactly! Living with people should be a subject in school instead of say maybe, History!! Thanks!Biju Mathewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678568866629781139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-28002404694757942832009-02-25T23:26:00.000-08:002009-02-25T23:26:00.000-08:00A very well written post.First time here and i'm g...A very well written post.First time here and i'm glad I stumbled upon a wonderful blog.Will look forward to reading you more often.<BR/><BR/>"As we grow older, we may remember more of those fairy tales. Loved ones would leave us, friends and acquaintances would surprise us by appearing again, and those respected tales meant for fairies we imagined as young children of this earthly world may disappear one by one." very well said.But that has not deterred me from telling fairy tales to my daughter,although she is yet to begin to enjoy them fully.Deepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307241572795187016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-30967335538974553642009-02-25T18:37:00.000-08:002009-02-25T18:37:00.000-08:00"I don't understand why people who are in deep lov..."I don't understand why people who are in deep love "just want to live together." Is not the living daily together the toughest part of a relationship or marriage?"<BR/><BR/>You have asked a question here and more connected with this. The answer is quite simple actually as I see it of course. People are different. Some may want to live together, some don't. Some may not need that privacy, some do, some don't need recuperation time as the normal separation due to work needs and such is enough time for recuperation for them, others may need more time... Some say long distance relationships don't work, some can carry it off so well and be as close and in love as any two people can hope to be. Some can relish their feelings of love without telling the object of love about it. Others simply have to tell. We are all individuals but unfortunately not treated as such.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-58076224095067681402009-02-25T18:17:00.000-08:002009-02-25T18:17:00.000-08:00How do we know what is the right way to love, to l...<I> How do we know what is the right way to love, to live a married life and how to keep our love? </I><BR/><BR/>:P Yeah, they dont make movies that show us how to do that, I agree.<BR/><BR/>Very profound questions - I guess we'll just know. One step at a time. And learn new things at each point and grow incredulously aware of just how different it is to have another person whose opinions and existance count as your very own :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-26958534594540200392009-02-25T00:37:00.000-08:002009-02-25T00:37:00.000-08:00@We were brought up with tales of many a handsome ...@We were brought up with tales of many a handsome prince...<BR/><BR/>Yep, we were never given any guide book, I guess that helps too..in a way we get to explore the life.<BR/><BR/>P.S: First time visit, something tells me I'll be backAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-67671893809326240242009-02-24T09:39:00.000-08:002009-02-24T09:39:00.000-08:00Interesting post. I second Indyeah's views.Interesting post. I second Indyeah's views.Reemahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13491748504763527697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-53928671986728458312009-02-23T21:56:00.000-08:002009-02-23T21:56:00.000-08:00:) I liked the way you talked about integrity :) ...:) I liked the way you talked about integrity :) as for behaving in the same way with a romantic partner...no experience yet ;)Visheshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14452040774198026145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-62571382640194395852009-02-23T10:34:00.000-08:002009-02-23T10:34:00.000-08:00a very interesting post..and you have written real...a very interesting post..and you have written really well:)<BR/><BR/>I think if an individual was raised right...that is the parents did a great job in making him/her a worthy kind compassionate human being then he/she will not have to learn much....<BR/>sure a few adjustments when a new life starts but overall a smooth transition:)<BR/>''Are we to behave the same as we behaved with our Sisters and our Mothers, fighting and throwing tantrums? Will that work with our wife or loved one? ''<BR/>with a balanced and equal gender upbringing this wont happen..:)<BR/><BR/>I do agree on this that all fairy tales end when the two lovers meet..whereas that is where they should begin..:)<BR/><BR/>hope,trust and love are all that are required to believe in fairy tales..:)Indyeahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05915739361027887530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-58261748756713706942009-02-23T06:02:00.000-08:002009-02-23T06:02:00.000-08:00Real life starts after "they lived happily ever af...Real life starts after "they lived happily ever after"..... fairy tales are hard to find or completely extinct..... but everybody wish to live a fairy tale like life..... full of happiness-bed of roses-full of love....... Its good to work towards that..... especially in such hard times when love and care are just ornamental words!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7445839300194753233.post-28987829211807680392009-02-23T05:20:00.000-08:002009-02-23T05:20:00.000-08:00one point is very much true..behaving alike with o...one point is very much true..behaving alike with our sis and loved ones...that never works..!!!broca's areahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978879187404578908noreply@blogger.com